As written By Leo Babauta
So many of us feel a scarcity of time: we feel rushed, like there’s not
enough time to do everything, always behind, never feeling like we’re doing
enough.
This problem is called “time scarcity,” and it’s one of the most common
stresses in our society.
So how do we deal with this? Unfortunately, there’s no easy answer — but
there are a few things I’ve found to be really powerful.
Let’s talk about the problem before we talk about the solution.
The Problem of Time
Scarcity
Most of us feel some kind of time stress: I’m not making the most of my
time, or there’s not enough of it to get everything done, it’s slipping away
too fast, I’m overwhelmed by it all.
The feeling is that there’s not enough time. With a feeling of scarcity
about time, we stress that we won’t get everything done. We feel behind.
Here’s the first thing to realize: there’s
always a fresh supply of time. We get the same amount of time
no matter who we are, and we get a fresh batch of 24 hours every day, no matter
how terribly we spent the previous 24 hours. It’s a fresh start, over and over,
a chance to try something new.
Here’s the next thing to realize: it
doesn’t matter how much you get done, doing more doesn’t solve the problem
of not enough time. I have had fantastically productive days, where I’ll get
20-30 tasks done with zero procrastination or distractions … and I still feel
like I need to do more, and that I wish I had more time.
And here’s the fourth thing to realize: these hours really are precious. They are
a gift. We take them for granted, and don’t appreciate them to the fullest. We
go through our days doing routine things, not really paying attention, and
because of that … the hours slip through our fingers, and we wonder where it
all went.
So with these things in mind, I’ll share the three most important ways to
make the most of our 24 hours.
4 Ways to Make the
Most of 24 Hours
These work for me. Your mileage might vary widely, but I hope you’ll try
them out.
First: be intentional
at the start of each day. With a fresh 24 hours before us, it’s
easy to just get started in our usual way. But to make the most of this new
batch of hours, I’ve found it important to take a few moments at the start of
the day to refect on what I want to do with them. I might not end up doing
things exactly as I plan, but I’m much more likely to spend the hours wisely if
I set intentions at the start. I make a list of what I would like for the day.
Second: don’t shoot
for doing more, do what matters. As I said, even doing 30+
things in a day won’t get rid of the time scarcity — in fact, it often makes
the stress even worse. Having a list of 30 things to do each day also gives you
a feeling of stress and scarcity. So what if you had a list of 3 important
things? You’ve probably heard this advice before, but do you follow it? If you
could only put 3 things on the list, you’d choose carefully. Btw, after you do
those 3 things, you can still do others, but I wouldn’t expect yourself to do
all the other things. As you do each of the 3 things on your list, do each
thing as if it were the only thing that mattered. (See next item.)
Third: create moments
of transcendence. Rushing through tasks and chores like we need
to get to the next thing only creates an experience of life that blends
together in a dull soup. But what if we could elevate the moments of our lives
to something special, sacred, alive? What if cooking soup for dinner became a
transcendent experience? A moment of transcendence is something each of us has
experienced: when we feel incredibly connected to the world around us, when we
lose our sense of separate self and feel a part of something bigger. It’s that
moment when you’re at the top of a mountain looking with awe on everything
around you, or looking up at the stars, or floating in the ocean, or having
your breath taken away by a sunset or field of flowers. We can intentionally
create these moments, with practice, in our everyday lives. As you’re doing
everything on your list, as you’re washing the dishes or having a conversation,
driving home or eating kale and beans … you can elevate that moment into one of
transcendence. Try it. And if you could create multiple moments like this
throughout your day … time feels less scarce, and incredibly abundance. This is by far the most important
thing on this list, btw.
Fourth: reflect with
gratitude. At the end of each day, take a few moments to
reflect back on your day and think about what you’re grateful for. Such common
advice, I know, but combined with the other things on this list it’s
ridiculously powerful. Try it.
So those are the four ways. Together, they are a way of being in our lives
that is radically different than most of us experience our days.
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